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Mindset Monday May 26/25

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Dr. Stacy June 2, 2025

 

In this Mindset Monday session, Dr. Stacy explores the crucial difference between perfectionism and the pursuit of excellence, especially for high achievers. She explains that perfectionism is rooted in fear and the need for external validation, often leading to anxiety, self-doubt, and avoidance of challenges. In contrast, excellence stems from intrinsic motivation, curiosity, and a desire to see what we’re truly capable of. Using personal reflections and powerful examples—like the Toronto Maple Leafs’ disappointing game and Kobe Bryant’s dedication to growth—she illustrates how fear of failure and societal pressure can block us, while a mindset focused on growth and joy can free us. The invitation is to let go of performance as proof of worth and instead embrace the process with balance, self-trust, and aspiration.

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CODE OF CONDUCT

(our basic expectations for how to be in this place)

Welcome to The Design Your Life Community!

We are so happy that you decided to join us in this sacred space.

The phrase ‘sacred space’ might sound a bit formal and serious, like you need to mind your manners and take off your hat before you come in. Let me assure you that we are not that formal around here. But, we do think it is important to pause and recognize that this place is special and one we hope you will cherish. As such, it does require us to get centred in order to show up as our highest selves. Maintaining a loving atmosphere filled with compassion, empathy and respect is the secret sauce that is fundamentally important for all of us to learn, grow and heal in ways that serve us and others.

Here are our basic expectations for everyone here:

In order to be a member of The Design Your Life Community, you need to be at least 18 years old, the legal age of consent.

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By joining the Design Your Life Community you also understand that:

  1. Whatever happens in the DYL Community stays here. No outside sharing.This means that it is prohibited to:
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  5. Nothing that happens within The Design Your Life Community is considered a form of psychotherapy or formal mental health treatment. Psychotherapy occurs in the context of a 1-on-1 therapeutic relationship following an in-depth assessment of your current functioning, personal history and wellness goals. This is not that.
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By participating in Kundalini Yoga at the Design Your Life Community, I acknowledge that:

– any session offered is not a substitute for medical attention, assessment, diagnosis or treatment.

– I must be in adequate physical and mental health to participate in the Activities (kundalini yoga classes that include breathwork, meditation, mantras, repetitive movements, postures, sound healing).

– I understand that the Activities may require intense physical exertion, and I represent and warrant that I am physically fit enough to participate, and I have no medical condition which would prevent my full participation in the Activities.

– I recognize that the Activities may cause or aggravate a physical injury or medical condition. -I understand that it is my responsibility to consult with a physician before my participation in the Activities. If I have done so, I have taken the physician’s advice.

– I understand that the Teacher reserves the right to refuse my participation in any Activity on medical, fitness or any other grounds.

– I understand my physical limitations and I am sufficiently self-aware to stop or modify my participation in any Activity before I become injured or aggravate a pre-existing injury. In consideration of being permitted to participate in the Activities, I agree to assume full responsibility for any risks, injuries or damages, known or unknown, which I might incur as a result of participating in the Activities, including those which may result from the negligence of the Teacher

– In further consideration of being permitted to participate in the Activities, I knowingly, voluntarily and expressly waive any “Claim” (as defined below) I may have against the Teacher and any of Teacher’s employees, independent contractors or assistants (each, a “Released Party”) that I may sustain as a result of participating in the Activities even if the Claim arises from the negligence of Released Party or anyone else.

– I agree to indemnify and hold harmless Released Party from any loss, cost, or liability incurred in defending any Claim made by me or anyone making a Claim on my behalf, even if the Claim is alleged to or did result from the negligence of Released Party or anyone else.
“Claim” includes but is not limited to any and all liabilities, claims, demands, expenses, fees, legal actions, rights of actions for damages, personal injury, mental suffering and distress, or death that I may suffer, my spouse, children or unborn child may suffer (including any legal fees or expenses) in connection with participation in any Activity.

– I, my heirs or legal representatives forever release, waive, discharge and covenant not to sue any Released Party for any Claim caused by any negligence or other acts of any Released Party.



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HOW LEARNING MODES WORK

You can select a Scheduled Class start date now, and when it has at least 6 and no more than 12 enrolled members the class start date will be official. If the class you choose doesn’t fill, you will be automatically enrolled in the next start date available (usually the next week), until a full class is scheduled. We do this to accommodate individual preferences and to keep class size small and effective.

HOW LEARNING MODES WORK

You can select a Scheduled Class start date now, and when it has at least 6 and no more than 12 enrolled members the class start date will be official. If the class you choose doesn’t fill, you will be automatically enrolled in the next start date available (usually the next week), until a full class is scheduled. We do this to accommodate individual preferences and to keep class size small and effective.
You can also choose the Self-Paced Experience and enter the Community Campus, where you can work through the course materials on your own, and have access to all of the tools and resources that are available to support you in our awesome community including access to Group Coaching Office Hours Coaching Calls, Accountability Calls, Habit Tracker, Journal App, Media Library , Live Q & A’s with Dr. Stacy and other events in the community.
If you choose the self-paced option for now, you will have a year to join a class that suits your schedule so you can experience the journey with a close-knit group.